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|publisher=Simon and Schuster UK
|date=September 2016
|isbn=978-1471150470
|website=http://www.gayleforman.com
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|title=Leave Me
|author=Gayle Forman
|reviewer=Kerry King
|genre=General Fiction
|summary=Maribeth Klein was having a heart attack. In her mid forties, she of course put it down to stress, indigestion, being run down, generally just feeling, you know, ''off''. So when she opened her eyes, some days later, unable to breathe, but breathing; with a bright light in her face, she thought she was dreaming. As you would. Except she was freezing and she couldn't speak. Yep, definitely dreaming. Or dead. Was she actually dead? Maribeth figured that since she was hurting from head to toe, she was probably alive and had been having a heart attack after all.
|rating=5
|buy=Yes
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|pages=352
|publisher=Simon and Schuster UK
|date=8 September 2016
|isbn=978-1471150470
|website=http://www.gayleforman.com
Well, I'm not adopted (though sometimes, I look at ''at least'' one of my parents and think I simply ''must'' be) but it does make you realise that we're all here for a short time and some of us are here for a shorter time than others!
This is a ''great'' novel with a capital G. It dips a nose into modern parenting – you know, the ''two-out-at-work'' scenario where the mother has a part time job that involves her working at least as many hours as her full time colleagues and then some more because she has the ''stigma'' of being a working mother to deal with. Then, adding insult to injury, quite literally speaking in the case of this story, there are all the mother-chores to do, assigned to you because, as a part time worker, you ''have time''… . Well, I just bet this is ringing all kinds of bells for you, because it did for me. Even if you are a stay-at-home mum, you're still working more hours than the average bear, because you don't get to clock off and go home and put your feet up!
This wonderful and enlightening story also takes a long, hard and somewhat sneakily-delivered look at the issues of abandonment that one might feel as an adult when you are an adopted child. Issues that you didn't know you had – because you're evolved and dealing with it, aren't you - until you were suddenly feeling all of them, in another town and another life because you had to run away from your old one.
Truly, I had trouble putting this one down. I would say to you that I empathised and totally associated with Maribeth as if I was looking in the mirror. I've never had a heart attack (touch wood, spin round, whistle) or major health crisis but then, but that's just semantics. I've felt like Maribeth; I truly have. A million mums around the world have too. More; probably a billion. Some of us have said ''Honey, I'm not wearing any underwear today… . Because you didn't put the laundry in the dryer like I asked you to do a thousand million times'' and some of us haven't got anyone to say that to because they're doing it by themselves, whether they wanted to or not.
This novel is a celebration of humanity. It recognises how you can stumble and fall and still fly like a bird. It reminds you that we are all fragile human beings, imperfect and all a work in progress and above all, it reminds us that life is complex and frightening but not impossible even if it sometimes looks like the Three Peaks Challenge, all day, every day.
If you like the sound of ''Leave Me'', I should just mention that this is Gayle Forman's first work of fiction that is not on the Young Adult list. As I've said many times, it would do us all good to read some Young Adult fiction because it reminds you that you're not so grown up that you can't relate to being a teenager againand maybe learn something. In any case, she's a formidable writer and you may like to take a look at [[If I Stay by Gayle Forman|If I Stay]] which hints at the kind of content ''Leave Me'' delivered. If poking around in the ''adoption'' storyline is of interest to you, then I'd like to recommend [[The English American by Alison Larkin]]. On the subject of wives, I would be derelict in my duty if I did not suggest these final two: [[Novel About My Wife by Emily Perkins]] and [[The Wife by Meg Wolitzer]], because Meg Wolitzer should be required reading for husbands in particular and for Year 11 and upwards. I can't thank Simon and Schuster enough for the privilege of reviewing this copy. {{amazontext|amazon=147115677X}}{{amazonUStext|amazon=147115677X}} {{commenthead}}
I can't thank Simon and Schuster enough for the privilege of reviewing this copy.