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We first met Minkie and Mike in [[Another Kind of Loving by Sylvie Nickels|Another Kind of Loving]] when Mike, a reporter in war-torn Sarajevo rescued Jasminka from an orphanage and brought her back to leafy Oxfordshire. He and his wife, Sara, fostered the girl, who was known as Minkie because few people could pronounce her real name. They gave her love, security and the opportunity to turn into a beautiful, confident young woman, but whose heart was torn between the family who had done so much for her and her native Sarajevo.
Many years later Mike is a widower – Sara was killed in a car crash – and Minkie is now a single parent. Branka’s father is a Pole, although there is no longer any contact with him, but Minkie and Mike’s relationship has blossomed. It’s no longer the love of parent and child, but a man and a woman. The age difference is irrelevant but whilst Minkie would not hesitate to have a full sexual relationship, Mike is reluctant, despite Minkie’s determination to test him to the limit.
Minkie isn’t the only distraction in Mike’s life. Despite having a life-long hatred of violence evidence is emerging that he might have been responsible for someone’s death. The trouble is that Mike has blanked it out of his mind and cannot recall the incident at all. Other people do have memories though – and some of them are determined that Mike will be brought to justice for what he has done.
Tying up all the loose ends in a trilogy is never easy – particularly when the locations contrast so sharply - but Sylvie Nickels does it with admirable aplomb. Leafy Oxfordshire isn’t a warzone, but Mike’s childhood confidence was tested by the school bullies – and what is war if not bullying on a grand scale? Do you cave in or stand up for your beliefs? Minkie knows what she has to do. In Sarajevo , the war must be relegated to the past. Lessons can be learned, but the mood must now be about reconciliation if what has happened in the past is not to be repeated in the future. But where does that leave her and Mike?
Nickels handles the delicate question of the relationship between Mike and Minkie with sensitivity. They are not related, but the fact remains that Minkie grew up as a child in his home. Some people have their doubts about whether a relationship between the two is morally defensible – and Mike obviously has his doubts. He also has a rather questionable interpretation of ‘fidelity’, but it doesn’t leave you liking him any the less – it simply highlights his humanity.
I’d like to thank the author for sending a copy of the book to the Bookbag.
Do read [[Another Kind of Loving by Sylvie Nickels|Another Kind of Loving]] – I couldn’t put the book down. For more on the break-up of the former Yugoslavia , we can recommend [[The Cellist of Sarajevo by Steven Galloway]]. Teens might enjoy [[Courage to Change by Sylvie Nickels]].
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