Changes

Mari and Owen are both 35, and originally met way back when they were in school. Their paths cross now and again, but it takes them a long time before they begin to wonder if perhaps they're meant to be together. Mari finds herself in a succession of relationships that are doomed to failure. She's pretty harsh, rejecting one man because his voice is a bit funny, and breaking up with another only weeks before they are due to get married. I felt like I was supposed to like Mari, and identify with her since we're of a similar age, but to be honest I found her annoying and her very varied love life was rather alien to me, hence the feeling that perhaps my life was a bit dull in comparison. Dull, but happier! Owen faired better. I liked him a little more, although he's still very promiscuous and there were times when I just wanted to shake him!

I think perhaps I had expected the book to be much lighter and fuzzier than it was, and so I found it a disappointment. It's very sexual, and often I just felt sad for the characters that they seemed so lost in their lives. It's worth a read as an irreverant version of the 'find your perfect man' chick lit story but somehow, at the end, I felt sad for these desperate people that they had spent so much of their lives looking for each other. Hopefully if you go into it with your eyes open about what to expect you'll have a better reading experience that I did!