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|summary=A funny and truthful peek into the minds of sex-obsessed teenage boys. And girls aren't left out, either. Parents might find it shocking but the kids will find it real.
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|pages=336
|publisher=Andersen
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|date=August 2014
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''Dino's girlfriend won't give him what he wants.'' <br>

''Jonathan worries what his mates will think of the girl he likes.'' <br>

''And Ben is having extra "lessons" from his sexy teacher.'' <br>

First published in 2003, ''Doing It'' is the story of a group of teenagers discovering sex for the first time. It's explicit. It's unflinching. And it caused a stir at the time. With high teen pregnancy rates, is there such a thing as too much accuracy? Or are honest portrayals the best form of education? Reissued a decade later, we can have that conversation all over again through the prism of the three teenage boys this novel follows.

As a mother of teenage boys, ''Doing It'' was both a pleasure and a pain to read. I think I spent as much time laughing at/with myself as I did laughing at/with Dino, Jonathan and Ben. I'd consider myself a sensible parent but I'm not going to lie: I spent half the book thinking ''OH NOES! I'M GOING TO LOCK THEM UP! FOREVER!'' and the other half thinking ''YOU POOR THING, YOU JUST NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO. HERE I AM! HERE I AM!'' But of course, neither are sensible-parent things to think. You can't lock up your kids. They learn by experience. You can't force them to talk to you. They have to come of their own accord.

But Melvin Burgess didn't write ''Doing It'' for me. He wrote it for my kids. So what I think doesn't matter anyway. Even so, I'll carry on telling you. From the dim and distant memories of my own salad days and from my observation of my sons and their friends and their girlfriends, I think ''Doing It'' has everything just perfect. Bravado and willy-waving from the boys. Girls who are a bit more in touch with the common sense warnings going on in their heads but whose hormones keep frustratingly winning the day. The clocking-up of experience that is both joyful and painful in equal measure.

It might well frighten a few of the parental horses but I think ''Doing It'' is fabulous. It's truthful, funny, even terrifying sometimes, but it has a heart the size of a plant. And to my mind, the truth is always the best thing.

Highly recommended.

You might also look at [[Losing It by Keith Gray]] - a collection of short stories about losing one's virginity. And we love [[Apples by Richard Milward]], a vivid and poetic look at Britain's urban youth with its binge-drinking, drug taking and seemingly ubiquitous teen pregnancy.

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