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|comment= No, I actually don't think it's true, I think that we (or many people, anyway) do grow out of their childhood competitions and resentments, some residue may linger on, but one of the marks of adulthood (as oposed to being certain age) is to be able to, genuinely behave (and think) like an adult. Maybe even feel like one, though obviously it's harder.
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